Happy the man who early learns the wide chasm that lies between his wishes and his powers.

— Johann Wolfgang von Goethe, German poet, dramatist, novelist, and philosopher, 1749-1832

People are lucky and unlucky . . . according to the ratio between what they get and what they have been led to expect.

— Samuel Butler, English author, 1835-1902

Good is not good, where better is expected.

— Thomas Fuller, English churchman, historian, and prolific writer, 1608-1661

To expect life to be tailored to our specifications is to invite frustration.

— Unknown source

The quality of our expectations determines the quality of our actions.

— Andre Godin, French industrialist, writer, political theorist, and social innovator, 1817-1888

He that will have a perfect brother must resign himself to remaining brotherless.

— Italian proverb

Have a high standard for yourself and a medium one for everyone else.

— Marcelene Cox, U.S. writer, 1899-1998

Hope for a miracle. But don’t depend on one.

— The Talmud

If you want a place in the sun, you’ve got to put up with a few blisters.

— Abigail Van Buren, U.S. advice columnist and radio show host who began the Dear Abby column in 1956 which became the most widely syndicated newspaper column in the world, 1918-2013

Life is made up of sobs, sniffles, and smiles, with sniffles predominating.

— O. Henry, U.S. short story writer, 1862-1910

When nobody around you seems to measure up, it’s time to check your yardstick.

— Bill Lemley, U.S. writer, Born 1954

Life guarantees a chance—not a fair shake.

— Unknown source

The whole point of getting things done is knowing what to leave undone.

— Stella Isaacs Charnaud, English philanthropist who founded the Women’s Voluntary Service and became the first female member in the House of Lords, 1894-1971

The more we have, the more we want. And for this reason, we never have it all.

— Joyce Brothers, U.S. psychologist and television personality who for 53 years wrote a daily newspaper advice column, 1927-2013

The man with insight enough to admit his limitations comes nearest to perfection.

— Johann von Goethe, German statesman and writer of poetry, dramas, and numerous scientific treatises, 1749-1832

To dream of the person you would like to be is to waste the person you are.

— Unknown source

Learn to . . . be what you are, and learn to resign with a good grace all that you are not.

— Henry Frederic Amiel, Swiss moral philosopher, poet, and critic, 1821-1881

It is only fools who keep straining at high C all their lives.

— Charles Dudley Warner, U.S. essayist and novelist, 1820-1900

Happy the man who early learns the wide chasm that lies between his wishes and his powers.

— Johann von Goethe, German statesman and writer of poetry, dramas, and numerous scientific treatises, 1749-1832

Better is the enemy of the good.

— Voltaire, French Enlightenment writer, historian, and philosopher famous for his wit, and an advocate for separation of church and state, 1694-1778

To expect life to be tailored to our specifications is to invite frustration.

— Unknown source

The greatest and most important problems in life are all in a certain sense insoluble. They can never be solved, but only outgrown.

— Carl Jung, Swiss psychiatrist and psychoanalyst who founded analytical psychology, 1875-1961

Don’t spend time beating on a wall, hoping to transform it into a door.

— Laura Schlessinger, U.S. talk radio host, author, and inductee to the National Radio Hall of Fame, Born 1947

Wisdom never kicks at the iron walls it can’t bring down.

— Olive Schreiner, South African author, anti-war campaigner, and intellectual, 1856-1920

Prospect is often better than possession.

— Thomas Fuller, English churchman, historian, and prolific writer, 1608-1661

Too many people miss the silver lining because they’re expecting gold.

— Maurice Setter, English former soccer player and manager, Born 1936

My expectations-which I extended whenever I came close to accomplishing my goals-made it impossible ever to feel satisfied with my success.

— Ellen Sue Stern, U.S. motivational speaker, best-selling author, and champion of people suffering from chronic illness

I like trees because they seem more resigned to the way they have to live than other things do.

— Willa Cather, U.S. writer of frontier life and recipient of the Pulitzer Prize for Literature, 1873-1947

Truly nothing is to be expected but the unexpected.

— Alice James, U.S. diarist and sister of novelist Henry James and philosopher and psychologist William James, 1848-1892
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